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Andrea's avatar

Amen to all of this! 💜

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Suse Fishburne's avatar

Ah, thanks petal! Love you xxx

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Jenny Peterson's avatar

Oh Suse, I love this. Reminds me of years ago when I had my own garden design business and I was going through a divorce after being a stay-at-home mom for 10 years. “You need to get a job,” my sister told me. “What? I have a job! I have a company!” She responded, “You know what I mean. A real job.” Ouch. Thankfully, I didn’t listen to her.

My little garden design company didn’t make me wealthy, but through it I met my now husband, wrote two garden books (one was award-winning), and traveled around the US speaking and doing TV. Those years taught me resilience and self-pride. 💜

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Suse Fishburne's avatar

Wow, good for you treasure! I feel like you are one of those people who has a lot of feathers in their... what's the expression? I'm trying to say, I feel like you've done a lot and been very accomplished in ways that you maybe don't often talk about. :) xxx

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Jenny Peterson's avatar

In those days, I often equated success with wealth, but even then, I made enough to support myself and my two growing sons with no help aside from very minimal child support. That was during the US recession, and I remember crying one day because I was $100 short for rent the next day, and my boys said, “don’t cry, mom. Let’s go sell some shit.” 😂 And they sold their old PlayStation and some video games and a guitar and we made rent. Was never so proud of myself AND them.

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Suse Fishburne's avatar

Woah. I cannot tell you how much I love that, Jenny.

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Jenny Peterson's avatar

I’m going to remind my boys of this today — and you’ve also inspired my Note today! Thank you love.

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Suse Fishburne's avatar

Your boys sound fantastic young men, even as kiddos. To sell their toys to help you make money for rent? Talk about inspiring.

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Intoobus's avatar

Hey! I saw your post pop up on my homepage and wanted to show some support. If you get a chance, I’d really appreciate a little love on my latest newsletter too always happy to boost each other!

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